Behind Closed Doors

Behind Closed Doors parties are held at intriguing and glamorous locations in Manhattan, including posh penthouses, lofts and townhouses.  BCD attracts beautiful, young couples and single ladies and generated immense media excitement as being at the center of the world's newest and coolest underground party scene.  As ABC's Nightline put it, BCD is "a modern twist on the swingers' club."

To retain the elite credentials of our party membership base we are not ashamed to discriminate on age, looks or charisma.  The main aim of the parties is to promote a safe, upscale environment for our guests to explore their sexuality, with a focus on making ladies feel comfortable and sexy.

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 BCD parties have just 4 golden rules which transcend both the parties and the online community:

- Ladies make the rules
- No means no
- Men cannot approach women
- Members only

These rules help preserve the unique atmosphere which is created by strict membership vetting and an environment where women are always in control.

The dress at parties is sometimes themed and although the dress code is not strict all our members are independently and effortlessly stylish. To find out more about the do's and dont's of the BCD scene please visit the BCD groups in our community section or arrange to attend our signature Swing School, which is held immediately before the party begins.


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 Single Ladies

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 Upscale, Private Locations 

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